Proud si Nikki Valdez sa anak na may deformity dahil hindi niya hinayaang maapektuhan nito ang kanyang buhay

May mga taong mabilis panghinaan ng loob. Ang iba sa kanila ay yung may nakikitang kakulangan sa katawan o di naman kaya sa kakayahan kaya naman bumababa ang tingin nila sa kanilang sarili. Ang iba naman ay masaya kung anong meron sila at pinapatunayan sa iba na hindi sukatan ng pagkatao ang pisikal na anyo.

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Proud ang aktres na si Nikki Valdez sa kanyang anak na si Olivia dahil hindi nito hinayaang malimitahan siya ng kanyang deformity.

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Ang deformity ni Olivia ay tinatawag na Syndactyly o ‘baby hand’. Ito ay isang uri ng birth defect kung saan dalawa o higit pang mga daliri sa ay hindi naghiwalay habang nasa sinapupunan pa ang sanggol. Ayon sa research isa sa dalawang libong ipinapanganak ang nagkakaroon ng ganitong deformity.

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Noong una ay natakot si Nikki nang malaman na may baby hand ang kanyang isisilang na anak pero ngayon ay napalitan na ito ng saya at puno na siya ng pasasalamat.

“As Limb Difference Awareness Month comes to a close, let me not forget to celebrate you, my love!
Year after year, you show greatness in what you do and that alone makes me proud to have you as my daughter. What was once just fear and anxiety over a diagnosis of your “baby hand” is now replaced and filled with pride, happiness and gratefulness.”

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Nagpasalamat din si Nikki dahil nagsilbing ilaw ang kanilang anak sa kanilang mga buhay. Ayon kay Nikki ay ipinakita sa kanya ng anak na maging matatag at tanggapin kung ano ang meron tayo.

“Thank you for being the light in our lives and for showing us most specially me how it is to be strong and to accept what we have.”

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Sinabi din ni Nikki kung gaano niya kamahal ang anak at inencourage niya ito na siya ay ipinanganak na kakaiba dahil nakatadhana siyang gumawa ng pagbabago.

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“Anak, please know that you were made with so much love and that being born different only means you were destined to make a difference. I love you with all that I am! ?”

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Nagbigay din ng maramdaming mensahe ni Nikki sa anak noong nakalipas na mothers day,

“My Olivia, you are the reason why we celebrate this day. Mama loves you more than anything. I am happy I get to serve you and love you the best way I can. Happy Mother’s Day to me!!! ?”

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Makikita sa mga post ni Nikki kung gaano kabait at caring ang kanilang anak na si Olivia.

“Tonight, Olivia asked me to sleep in her room. Earlier today, my Mom told me she already cleaned the room and prepared my bed… All after last night’s most painful experience in my life. Once Lupang Hinirang was airing, she sang with me and as my eyes well up with tears waiting for ABS CBN to sign off, I heard her sobbing as well. ? Right after, she asked me, “Mama, are you ok?” I did not know what to answer. Sa sobrang sakit, nakatingin lang ako sa kanya.”

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Tonight, Olivia asked me to sleep in her room. Earlier today, my Mom told me she already cleaned the room and prepared my bed… All after last night’s most painful experience in my life. Once Lupang Hinirang was airing, she sang with me and as my eyes well up with tears waiting for ABS CBN to sign off, I heard her sobbing as well. ? Right after, she asked me, “Mama, are you ok?” I did not know what to answer. Sa sobrang sakit, nakatingin lang ako sa kanya. You know, when you have kids and you see them in pain but are helpless and in so much pain too, you fight back with everything you have left. Hindi ako madrama. Hindi ako paawa. So before you become happy for the misery of others, think twice. Or maybe more for you will never know the damage you have said and done to others until the same thing happens to you.

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Mapapanood din ang videos ni Olivia na kapansin-pansing may talento sa pagsayaw at sa pag-arte.

Sana ay maging inspirasyon para sa marami ang anak ni Nikki na si Olivia. Sana ay magsilbi din siya na encouragement para sa mga taong pinanghihinaan ng loob dahil sa kakulangan o kapansanan.